Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Apr 24, 2016

Belligerence

computer beside a banjo
Dear Reader,

What's the biggest asset you can have as an employee in a modern 21st century organization? Wow, that's a loaded question.

Is it raw talent and mastery of your skills, or by proxy, a fancy certificate on the wall that convinces people that you can do the job?

Feb 29, 2016

How To Get Your Way, Finally

Graphic of person holding sign showing the word no
Dear reader,

If you're like me, you might have had this same problem again and again at the office.

Have you ever felt like your coworkers know exactly how to get what they want from you, and you're powerless to persuade them to back off? You probably got buckets of advice from friends and family, and none of it worked out.

Well, it wasn't all bad advice. It was just horrible advice for you. Let's talk for a moment.

Oct 30, 2015

Personality: It's All About Snacking

http://www.workingquietly.com/2015/10/introvert-personality-snacking.html

Instinctively as human beings, we all know it's important keep a full belly and eat healthy to nourish our body. But, is that the only thing that requires feeding? What other parts of our bodies starve when they don't get the "nutrition" that they crave? The answer might surprise you!

Jul 4, 2015

Office Politics: Your Coffee Cup Has More Power Than You Do

Having a bad day at work?  I have a simple question:
Who’s to blame for that?

Is it your boss? Is it that pesky new project manager who just can't leave you alone? Or, maybe it's "those management jerks", whoever that is. Well, I have a question for you. Is it really anybody's fault, or is that just a distraction from the real problem? To appreciate what that problem is, we need to look at work stress in a different way.

Jan 17, 2015

Communication Toolkit for Introverts

https://www.packtpub.com/business/communication-toolkit-introvertsFind your voice in everyday business situations

By Patricia Weber
(reviewed by Working Quietly)

As introverts, one of the major tipping points in our career journey is when we realize that a lot of the "common sense" knowledge we were taught just doesn't seem to fit who we are as individuals, and if we're lucky, we eventually discover our true nature, and realize how the word introvert just wraps around our personality like a warm blanket.

Dec 28, 2014

Make A Fresh Start With A New Year's Undo!

I'd like to take this chance to wish you, my loyal reader, an early Happy 2015! It's that time of year to celebrate what's been accomplished in the year that's almost over and, you read it correctly, make some undo's for the new year! So, what's that exactly?

Over the past few years, I've gotten into the habit of skipping the usual guilt-inducing new year's resolutions in favor of something a lot more powerful and life altering. Why? Because it actually freaking works, that's why!

Dec 6, 2014

Boost Your Self Esteem In 3 Easy Steps

Welcome back readers! This is another article in my series about improving your self confidence at work.  As stressed out employees and overwhelmed introverts, we've all gone through several experiences at the office where we begin to question whether we're really cut out to be working in our jobs, and if we're really worthy of having the title that goes under our name.  These episodes of diminished self confidence typically come up when we have moments of low self esteem, and we're looking for a way to justify our negative thoughts and feelings.

Nov 14, 2014

3 Easy Ways To Dish It Back (To An Extrovert)

When I was younger, I used to dream about what it would be like to be all grown-up, and work in a grown-up job with no more school lessons, and no homework. I had this wonderful idea of being in a perfect job, with perfect colleagues, and enjoying a long rewarding career. Well, that was the dream, and then "reality" splashed me in the face when I grew up. No job is perfect, and our colleagues certainly aren't perfect, at least not like we imagined they would be.

Oct 19, 2014

The Bland Entrepreneur

If you're reading this, you're probably working in a job that you need but do not like, or one that you do not need, but you're unsure of where to go next in your career.

Is this you?  This was me just a few years ago.  Honestly, my life felt like one big contradiction, and I couldn't quite make sense of where I was, and where I was going.

Oct 12, 2014

We Need More Quiet Leaders Now

When things go wrong, we look to the people in charge to take care of us and make things right. This is part of our human nature.

Western society and Hollywood films teach us that successful leaders must owe their success to the parts of their personality that can be seen and heard by the people around them.  Excellent leaders are charismatic and gregarious.

But, is this really what good leaders do?

Sep 28, 2014

The #1 Secret Of The Confident Professional Introvert

Are you an introvert working in a professional setting? Do you feel like you are keeping a secret that you don't want to let anybody find out?

In a professional work environment, the desire to project a clean, comfortable and bland image for your coworkers and clients is often the biggest concern for an introvert who wants to prove to others that they can "fit in". Is there a better way?

Jul 19, 2014

How to Gain Real Confidence at Work

Picture of smiling statue - Confidence - what is it?
If you're an introvert like me, how many times have you heard the following sentences repeated back to you by concerned friends or colleagues?

"Fake it till you make it!"
"Put on a brave face!"
"It's all about having charisma, you know.."

..and my personal favourite:

"You need more self confidence."

Is "confidence" a commodity that we can acquire, or make up ourselves as if it were some kind of magical energy? Based on the above statements, it would appear so.